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Recipe For A Heartbreak

Senyth — Fri, 28 Aug 2009 05:09:14 +0000

Ingredients:
3 cups of ignorance
1 tblsp. misunderstanding
1/2 cup of carelessness
4 cups of gossip
5 tsps. violence
2 cups problems beyond your control
A pinch of hostility
1 goodbye

Procedure:
Mix ingredients adding a dash of hatred here and there when needed. Bake in oven until completely “burned”. Sprinkle with broken promises. Put on a “diss” and serve to unsuspecting victim.
Makes 1 Broken Heart.
Note: Best when served with a cold shoulder or a hot temper and “punch”. Never serve with a warm heart.

Author’s Note: I actually don’t know who made this article as my friend sent me this and I found it entertaining so I decided to blog it. It does make sense and if you’re wondering how the guy you like broke your heart, he probably followed this recipe. LOL. Kidding aside, it seemed sad that when the person we like doesn’t know how we feel and unknowingly break our hearts. There are times when we feel invisible and feel that they’re far even when he’s just sitting right next to you. I’ve read somewhere that “No matter how good and perfect a guy seem to be, he will still hurt a girl in the most painful way he could.” Seems like the girl had hurt him before and he intended to let her feel the pain too. Revenge is such a sweet painful thing, but if you love a person, would you really do it?

Now that I think of it, I haven’t thought of my ‘crush’ lately, which makes me think that I have indeed forgotten my feelings towards him, and it makes me kind of sad remembering those emotions I had in my heart. But we’re good friends right now, and it’s nice to know that.

While writing this, my neighbor of mine was singing “How could you say you love me when you would go and leave me? How could you make me hurt so bad when I have loved you more than anyone can do? Can’t believe the pain that I’m feeling now because of loving you.”, which is of course part of Sarah Geronimo’s song. It somehow suited the mood of this post. Haha.

If you know who made the aritcle above, kindly tell me so I can give the person the credit he/she deserves. Thanks.

You

Senyth — Mon, 04 May 2009 17:54:43 +0000

When the sunlight touches the ground, I miss you.
When the shadow of moonlight slowly climbs up, I miss you.
When the dust finally settles down, I’d see you.
Meeting in the deep night, I still can see your shadow.
When the waves crash, I hear your voice.
As everyone falls asleep in the midst of the quiet forest, I hear your voice.
No matter how far, I’d be by your side.
You’d be by my side when the sun sets and the stars shine.
Ah, if only you’re by my side.

Lovely Words from Pammy

Senyth — Sun, 19 Apr 2009 16:53:22 +0000

As most of my readers know, I am the epitome of the classic romantic, with open eyes, I often tread in on areas that are deemed inhabitable by others as I search for that one, that needle in the haystack. But, as I have grown, I have come to the realization that love comes in different shades, different sounds and different feelings.

When I was younger, love came in clashes of cymbals, lots of noise, and the constant thug of emotions. I read my romantic tales and watched my romantic comedies, with star crossed eyes, as I waited for my prince to come in a flash of light and rescue me from the hum drums of my realities.

But as I grew older, I realized that love doesn’t often come the way you expect it. It doesn’t come with all the signs that you place on it. Sometimes it comes quietly, like a whisper in the night, it often comes with the person that epitomizes the standards set in one of the holy books. Love often comes with patience, kindness and care. It often comes with a strong liking that goes beyond quick lust and the need to satiate your bodies in the fiery dance of passions. Love often comes with commitment, being able to take a step to the side to allow the other shine or being able to allow the person take their journey with the hopes that their journey will bring him or her back to you.

Love often comes with hope and faith knowing that no matter where that person’s journey takes them, if he/she is meant for you – you will be back at one. Love often comes with the ability to let go and just fall knowing that he/she whom you trust so much will be there to catch you if you fall. Love often comes with harsh realities and deep truths and the ability to see the person as he/she really is and still be able to look at him/her across the room and fall in love again.

For me, love is a security blanket knowing no matter how far I go, or whatever happens, knowing I am accepted just the way I am. Every one has their different ways of defining love but to me love is patient, kind, joyful, always wishing well, it is immersed in hope, faith and often times a deep sadness.

What is love to you?

50 Hurting Experiences From Loving

Senyth — Fri, 03 Apr 2009 15:21:46 +0000

1. Letting go of a person you’ve just learn to love
2. Reminiscing the good times you shared together
3. Shielding your heart to love somebody
4. Trying to hide what you really feel
5. Trying to hide the tears that involuntarily fall from your eyes.
6. Loving a person too much
7. Giving up someone you never thought of giving up
8. Having the right to love at the wrong time
9. Taking the risk to fall in love again
10. Hiding your relationship from someone else
11. controlling your feelings to avoid hurting a friend
12. Thinking of him/her every waking and sleeping moment knowing all the while that he/she never even thinks a single thought of you
13. Letting go, because every time you see the person, you only fall deeper
14. Holding back only to find when it’s too late, you both feel the same way, but were only scared to lose each other so much that you didn’t let the feelings out.
15. Falling in love with someone you didn’t mean to fall in love with.
16. Finding the perfect guy, with only one problem — he/she doesn’t love you the way you want him to
17. Helping the one you love “court” your friend/ helping your friend “court the one you love
18. Seeing the one you love crying for someone else
19. Waiting also hurts like hell
20. Having to hear” .. I’ve met someone”
21. Agreeing to his/her wish to ‘just be friends’
22. Asking his/her freedom back coz ‘he’d/she’d be happier with him
23. Asking you to ‘forget that everything happened’ and be normal friends again
24. Hearing that you are treated as a little bro/sis
25. Sharing his/her future plans for the guy/girl with you
26. You stopped being friends ‘coz his gf / her bf asked him/her to
27. Being denied in front of people
28. Telling you lies where he’d/she’d been when actually, he/she was with a ‘new friend’ or an ‘old flame’
29. He/she told you he’d/she’d be leaving you to return to his/her ex? The one he/she left for you!
30. Breaking someone’s heart!
31. Fighting for that one thing that would make you happy that is, holding on to a person who cannot guarantee you his/her commitment unless he/she fix himself/herself…then, you are left hanging for a moment.. then he says, time will tell.. ang labo lang niya.. but you still decided to hope in him/her and trust him/her
32. Pretending you’re OK when inside you’re dying
33. Pretending to be strong and recognizing your weaknesses
34. Lying in bed each night, thinking of that special person you can never have
35. Being with someone you can’t actually love
36. Pretending you don’t love the person whom you actually love
37. Being in love…
38. Letting go even if you really don’t want to and having no right to say you are hurting because it was your decision
39. Seeing the person you love hurt because of you and not being able to help that person
40. Having the courage to say “I LOVE YOU” to the person you love and finding out afterthat things will never be the same again when he/she doesn’t treat you with the same closeness as before
41. Having to face the fact that someone is capable of completely destroying the wall that you have set for yourself, leaving you weak and vulnerable
42. Admitting that you love someone despite his/her imperfections
43. Finding out that the more you try to hate him, the more you end up loving him/her, perhaps even more than before
44. Realizing how stupid your mistakes were that led to your break-up
45. The thought that this guy/girl, used to really love you and you love him/her as well but you didn’t give enough and he/she gave up on you
46. Sharing the one you love with SOMEBODY else”
47. Making a promise and realizing that when the time comes for that promise to be delivered but the commitment is no longer there
48. Violating your parents’ rules for that someone you love
49. Leaving your long-time friends because the one you love cannot accept them
50. The hardest thing about love-

Women Are…

Senyth — Sat, 15 Nov 2008 07:58:51 +0000

Women are like apples on trees, the best ones are on the top of the tree. The men don’t want to reach for the good ones because they are afraid of falling and don’t want to get hurt. Instead, they just get the rotten apples
from the ground that aren’t so good but easy.

So, the apples at the top think something is wrong with them, when in reality they are amazing. They just have to wait for the right man to come along, the one who’s brave enough to climb all the way to the top becuase they value quality.

21 Things

Senyth — Tue, 28 Oct 2008 08:04:05 +0000

1) Guys may be flirting around all day, but before they go to sleep, they always think about the girl they truly care about….
2) Guys are more emotional then you think, if they loved you at one point, it’ll take them a lot longer then you think to let you go, and it hurts every second that they try.
3) Guys go crazy over a girl’s smile (:
4) A guy who likes you wants to be the only guy you talk to.
5) Giving a guy a hanging message like “You know what?..uh…nevermind..” would make him jump to a conclusion that is far from what you are thinking. And he’ll assume he did something wrong and he’ll obsess about it trying to figure it out.
6) If a guy tells you about his problems, he just needs someone to listen to him. You don’t need to give advice.
7) A usual act that proves that the guy likes you is when he teases you. GUYS LOVE YOU MORE THAN YOU LOVE THEM!!!
9) Guys use words like hot or cute to describe girls. They rarely use beautiful or gorgeous. If a guy uses that, he loves you or likes you a whole heck of a lot.
10)If the guy does something stupid in front of the girl, he will think about it for the next couple days or until the next time he spends time with the girl.
11)If a guy looks unusually calm and laid back, he’s probably faking it and he is really thinking about something.
12) When a guy says he is going crazy about the girl, he really is. Guys rarely say that.
13)When a guy asks you to leave him alone, he’s just actually saying, “Please come and listen to me.
14)If a guy starts to talk seriously, listen to him. It doesn’t happen that often, so when it does, you know something’s up.
15) When a guy looks at you for longer than a second, he’s definitely thinking
something.
16) Guys really think that girls are strange and have unpredictable decisions and are MAD confusing but somehow are drawn even more to them.
17)A guy would give the world to be able to read a girl’s mind for a day.
18)No guy can handle all his problems on his own. He’s just too stubborn to admit it.
19)NOT ALL GUYS ARE RUDE!!! Just because ONE is RUDE doesnt mean he represents ALL of them.
20)WHEN A GUY SACRIFICES HIS SLEEP AND HEALTH JUST TO TALK TO YOU, HE REALLY LIKES YOU AND WANTS TO BE WITH YOU AS MUCH AS POSSIBLE.
21)Even if you dump a guy months ago and he loved you he probably still does and if he had one wish it would be you to come back into his life.

Friendship VS Love

Senyth — Thu, 22 May 2008 11:21:44 +0000

Did you ever fall for someone you know you shouldn’t?
Try hard to fight your feelings, but you just couldn’t?
You fall deeper with each passing day,
But try to hide it in every possible way.
He’s only a friend, and nothing else–
That’s the lie you keeping telling yourself.
You keep on saying he’s just a bud,
But deep inside, you’re falling in love.
You get so giddy when you meet his eyes,
But keep reminding yourself it isn’t right.
A simple glance turns into a stare,
But you pretned that you don’t care.
It’s “not right” for you two to be.
Is that why you hide it so no one can see?
But how long will you pretend?
Keep lying that he’s just a friend?
Perhaps your feelings you can never show.
Perhaps it’s “wrong” for him to know.
Your friendship can’t be risked over this,
So being his girl is an impossible wish…

That Right Person

Senyth — Fri, 21 Mar 2008 08:05:13 +0000

Somebody once told me that finding the right person is very hard and very wrong. It is best to be the right person for the one you love and start from there. You’ll always end up disappointed when you set standards and define a “right person” for you. And don’t rush things ‘coz somewhere, somehow God is preparing somebody for you.

You can never be perfect, the person you love can never be perfect. But both of you can be perfect through love and prayers, and your love can be perfect through the two of you. But, no relationship is complete without God – that is why we have marriage. It’s a bond not only between you and your loved one but also with God.

Our relationships fail not because (s)he’s not the right person – it’s because we expected too much and we decided on our own. Let God do the work. You may call it “waiting time” but while you are waiting… pray. Let God guide you always. He knows better…. No, He knows best.

Love is not what you think it is. Sometimes we mistakenly feel that our first relationship will be our last. Because we are overwhelmed with joy and romance, we forget to learn the meaning of true love.

Some are saying that love is unselfish, blind, unconditional or simply denying
one self for the sake of someone very important in our life. Others are saying love is immortal and can never be defined.

When we think we’re in love, the first thing we almost wanted the whole world to know is that our love for someone very special can never be taken away from us. We say this phrase: “You are the most wonderful gift from GOD I have ever received!” But after a terrible fight or sometimes even a petty quarrel we then say: “You are the biggest mistake I’ve ever made in my entire life!” Now, how do you say and spell the word L-O-V-E? Are you really deeply into it?

Nobody can tell what love really is until experience speaks and whispers right into our ears. Most of the time, these love promises like “Forever”, “Till Death do us apart”, etc. would end up “Never”, “We should part ways…”, “I’m no longer happy with you”, “My love for you is DEAD!” Many times after having committed to someone and your trust to one another freezes down to zero degree,we thought: “He/She ain’t the right one. I should probably wait for the right one to come.” But the big question anyone could not answer is “Is he/she the right one?” and “When is the right time?” That makes us stick to whom we are with.

Will you always be waiting for the right person to come and the right time to
commit? A big YES is the answer. Don’t be in a hurry to get into a relationship because you can never find love if you insist that you are already into it. Try to find time to really understand your real feelings, to know who you really are, and what you really want in a relationship. There is no such thing as a perfect relationship, but there’s a compatible partnership that goes along with it.

If you already knew that you’re too big to fit into a small sized t-shirt,
don’t give it a try. You’ll probably break it and pay for the damages you have made. If you knew and felt that the relationship will not last, don’t go deeper into it. You’ll just suffer the consequences and live like hell the rest of your life. It’s really hard to say goodbye though, but you can’t make it any better by just pretending you still have the same feelings. Try to let go and give yourself a chance to live life to the fullest. Give yourself a chance to grow and give your heart a much needed attention. Then you will find that you have made the right decision and you made it all by yourself. More fluently than not, we all act in a hypocritical manner for some reason.

We call it love when we can’t leave someone and see them crying as we try to let go. We are wrong, its just pity.

We call it love when we’re too attached and think that losing the one we love will somehow make us weak and unable to face the storms of life. We
misunderstood, its just that we’re too much dependent to them.

We call it love when we give our whole life to them, the wholeness of us and imagined that if they leave, no one would accept us and our past. We are mistaken, its just insecurity. But no matter what the definition is, the truth still remains that love isn’t something you can buy nor beg. It is real and existing. You can’t touch it but you can feel it in your heart. You can’t find it, but it will knock before you when you least expect it to come. It can make you the happiest soul in heaven, but don’t forget that it also can make you the most miserable person in the whole galaxy.

God Is Like..

Senyth — Thu, 20 Mar 2008 08:02:18 +0000

God is like…
BAYER ASPIRIN
He works miracles.

God is like…
a FORD
He’s got a better idea.

God is like…
COKE
He’s the real thing.

God is like…
HALLMARK CARDS
He cares enough to send His very best.

God is like…
TIDE
He gets the stains out that others leave behind.

God is like..
GENERAL ELECTRIC
He brings good things to life.

God is like…
SEARS
He has everything.

God is like…
ALKA-SELTZER
Try him, you’ll like Him.

God is like…
SCOTCH TAPE
You can’t see him, but you know He’s there.

God is like…
DELTA
He’s ready when you are.

God is like…
ALLSTATE
You’re in good hands with Him.

God is like…
VO-5 Hair Spray
He holds through all kinds of weather.

God is like…
DIAL SOAP
Aren’t you glad you have Him? Don’t you wish everybody did?

God is like…
The U.S. POST OFFICE
Neither rain, nor
snow, nor sleet nor ice will keep Him from His appointed destination

Sinong Mas Mahalaga?

Senyth — Wed, 18 Oct 2006 08:06:00 +0000

sino ba ang mas mahalaga, ang taong mahal mo o ang taong gusto mong mahalin???

ang taong kasama mo buong araw o ang taong iniisip mo bago matapos ang araw???

siya bang kasa-kasama mo sa lahat ng ginagawa mo o siyang dahilan ng lahat ng galaw at ginagawa mo???

sino ba ang mas mahalaga… yung taong nais mong makasama habang buhay o yung taong hindi mo makita ang habang buhay kapag wala siya?

Sino ang mas matimbang… yung taong pag kasama mo’y parang kay bilis ng oras o yung taong tuwing iniisip mo’y parang kay bagal ng oras?

ano ang susundin mo… ang dinidikta mo sa puso mo o ang dinidikta ng puso mo syo?

sya ba yun laging pumapasok sa isip mo o siya yung laging laman ng panaginip mo?

Sino nga ba… ang taong nagpaluha syo, o ang taong nagpunas sa minsang pagluha mo?

Sino sa kanila… ang taong nagpapatawa syo o ang taong dahilan ng lahat ng iyong emosyon?

SIno nga bang pipiliin mo???

ANG TAONG MULING NAGBUKAS NG PUSO MO…

O ANG TAONG MATAGAL NG NANDOON???

think about it…